January 2008


Speaking in Boston, Lenox, and New York City

For the past few days I’ve been on the East Coast giving presentations on integral philosophy. On Wednesday, January 23, I spoke at EnlightenNext’s beautiful Boston Center, and the audience participation (a group of about 80 people) was really terrific. Much of the discussion focused on “free will” — where it comes from, why it is an organ of perception of values, and why it is a critical feature of human consciousness’ role in the “cosmic economy.”

Next, I traveled to Andrew Cohen’s EnlightenNext headquarters in Lenox Massachusetts. Set in the Berkshire Mountains, this former Vanderbilt estate consists of a large “manor house” (in which the offices of What Is Enlightenment? Magazine, the community dining room, and other facilities are located), and several other historical buildings, including a large “meditation hall” where I gave a presentation to another sizable audience on Saturday night.

I stayed at “Foxhollow” (as the estate is called) for six wonderful days, having private dinners with Andrew and Executive Editor Carter Phipps (see the snapshot from my i-phone of the three of us above) on three occasions. Andrew, Carter, and I talked a lot about “integral natural theology” — the aspects of spirit that become “self-evident” from an integral perspective. That is, even though Andrew’s teaching is rooted in Eastern Nondual traditions, and my spiritual path has been Western and theistic, there is nevertheless very much we can agree about, and even directly see from the newly emerging vantage point of the integral worldview. For example, Andrew and I both agreed that evolutionary spirituality yields a kind of “developmental logic” that shows us how the evolution of our consciousness will continue beyond this life, with death changing very little. Also, we both could see that there is really only one “authentic self” in which we all participate. However, in our discussion we did encounter some interesting differences regarding the spiritual importance of originality. From my perspective, even though “we are all essentially one,” we are all also uniquely original. And it is this originality that allows us to be known and loved by God. Although Andrew now recognizes a Divine Person through the concept of the “second face of God,” this concept is not as central or robust in his theology as it is in mine.

Concepts such as the “Authentic Self,” the original and eternal nature of human personality, and the love of God, are obviously beyond the scope of this blog post. So suffice it to say that Andrew, Carter, and I had a very fruitful and heartfelt discussion, which is continuing to resonate and give me a new appreciation of the movement of spirit in the world. I hope to write further about integral natural theology soon.

Overall, I can say that I was very impressed with Andrew Cohen; I found him to be warm, natural, and thoroughly authentic. Despite my reservations about the Guru model of spiritual community, I received a most favorable impression of the Foxhollow residents. Especially edifying was the friendships I established with WIE editors Carter Phipps, Elizabeth Debold, Ross Robertson, Jeff Carreira, and Robert Heinzman (not to mention Andrew). In fact, in my travels to various cities to speak about integral philosophy, I consistently find that the EnlightenNext folks are some of the most spiritually fragrant people I meet. It does seem that Andrew is definitely doing something right.

After giving a variety of presentations and interviews at Foxhollow, Carter Phipps and I took the train down to New York City to give a joint presentation at EnlightenNext’s center near Madison Square Garden. Here again we had a large and receptive crowd and I thought the evening went very well. You can hear a recording of this presentation in its entirety on the INTERVIEWS SECTION of this website. The New York talk was a new format for me — usually I give a prepared power-point presentation followed by questions. But in New York, Carter and I started with a brief statement of what the integral worldview meant to us, and then we devoted the rest of the two-hour event to questions and discussion. This Q&A format helped me see that I am a much better speaker when I can be spontaneous and let the “intersubjective field” of the audience bring out the content.

In the next few months I’ll be giving a variety of presentations at the new Boulder Integral Center (see the SCHEDULE SECTION). Also, we are continuing to work on planning my trip to Southern California, where I grew up.



The Materials Economy -- TheStoryofStuff.com

The modern world is a complex system designed to do just one thing: create stuff. This is a great primer on how stuff moves through society, how society is built to serve stuff, and where all that stuff ultimately winds up.



TNM 008: Is Pornography Great for a Relationship?

Porn is a part of nearly every man's sexual life. LiYana points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be junk-food, polluting our healthy relationship and distracting us from connection to our partner. She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners.
LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship. Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection.
Learn how to express love and the other things you love in your life rather than the typical compromise of love or these things. If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship? "Get in touch with that, then we can work with it," she says. You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it.

There's plenty of love to go around. Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table. Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy.
Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man.
Resources:
- redefiningmonogamy.com



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Jerry needs no help playing with his ball.

I built the ball machine because I thought my dog Jerry, might like it and that it would be something fun for me to build. So after two years of on and off work, with many safety features such as IR proximity sensors to protect Jerry and my son from the machine, I finally complete. Far from being a replacement for me, I was always right there with him enjoying his fun. And with all the troubles that I went through to build the ball machine, I still end up throwing more balls than that the ...
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BG 056: Insight Dialogue: Extending Meditation into Mutuality

What would it be like if we were able to extend the silence & clarity of the meditative mind into our relationships? Would this impact how we listen, what we say, and even how we perceive reality? Gregory Kramer, teacher of a unique interpersonal meditation called Insight Dialogue, claims that it does this and much more.
In this dialogue we find out about the specifics of the Insight Dialogue practice, covering each of the six steps of this practice (see below), as well as exploring what it's like to be on a retreat where both individual and interpersonal contemplation takes place.
The six steps of Insight Dialogue:
1. Pause
2. Relax
3. Open
4. Trust Emergence
5. Listen Deeply
6. Speak the Truth
This is Part 2 of a two-part series. Listen to Part 1, Interpersonal Meditation - Awakening as Relational Beings.



BG 056: Insight Dialogue: Extending Meditation into Mutuality

What would it be like if we were able to extend the silence & clarity of the meditative mind into our relationships? Would this impact how we listen, what we say, and even how we perceive reality? Gregory Kramer, teacher of a unique interpersonal meditation called Insight Dialogue, claims that it does this and much more. In this dialogue we find out about the specifics of the Insight Dialogue practice, covering each of the six steps of this practice (see below), as well as exploring what it's like to be on a retreat where both individual and interpersonal contemplation takes place.The six steps of Insight Dialogue:1. Pause2. Relax3. Open4. Trust Emergence5. Listen Deeply6. Speak the TruthThis is Part 2 of a two-part series. Listen to Part 1, Interpersonal Meditation - Awakening as Relational Beings.



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TNM 007: Looking to Redefine your Monogamous Relationship?

Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship. Most likely it happens every day! Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don't hurt our partners?
Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it's part of what makes you a man. So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it?
It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them. If we can develop strong, healthy constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom. We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that's what we want to do, according to LiYana.

Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret "Kryptonite" that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection. This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust.
Resources:
redefiningmonogamy.com
Areas of Conversation: relationship, couples, polyamory, monogamy, deep relationship, healthy communication


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